Tuesday, February 24, 2015

Happy Tuesday!
Happy Tuesday!!!
Music 4 Life® New Beginning Dare to BE Happy Challenge and our focus for February will be on relationships.

Last week we talked about Forgiveness.  My AHA was: I must start with forgiving myself!!!!

This week we will support you on Work/Life Balance .   This is a HUGE topic and I never stop working on it!

“Be patient with everyone, but above all with yourself.” ~ St. Francis de Sales

We will explore tools to help you with being present at work as well as at home...what a concept!!!

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    Music 4 Life® Dare To BE Happy Challenge 2015 New Beginnings
    Jan 13 through Mar 31, 2015
    Amy Frost and Judith Pinkerton

    Process for Dare To BE Happy Challenge:
    This Day/Week’s topic in Music 4 Life® Circles we will be Creating and Nurturing Relationships on Tuesday Feb 24th at 4-5pm  and on Friday Feb 27th  1-2pm with Self Care call at Noon.   

    Forgivingly Yours, Amy 













    Tuesday, February 17, 2015

    Happy Tuesday!!!

    Music 4 Life® New Beginning Dare to BE Happy Challenge and our focus for February will be on relationships.

    Last week we talked about Creating and Nurturing Relationships.  My AHA was: All relationships are in process.  If I take them for granted they can fade away or become something that doesn't serve my life or mission.

    This week we will support you on Forgiveness.   This is a HUGE topic and key to being able to be fully present with ANYone!!!

    “We achieve inner health only through forgiveness – the forgiveness not only of others but also of ourselves." ~ Joshua Loth Liebman

    We will explore tools to help you with forgiveness to live a full and colorful life!!!
    • Happiness Scale Check In
    • Reflection:  Pull Messenger of Light cards with intention of guidance in forgiveness
    • Heart Breath
    • Information on Forgiveness
    • Experience on Forgiveness of other
    • Experience on Forgiveness of self
    • Recalibration to Success Now Tool
    • Walk with Future Self  
    • Action Plan – 3 steps; Next Step 
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    Music 4 Life® Dare To BE Happy Challenge 2015 New Beginnings
    Jan 13 through Mar 31, 2015
    Amy Frost and Judith Pinkerton

    Process for Dare To BE Happy Challenge:
    This Day/Week’s topic in Music 4 Life® Circles we will be Creating and Nurturing Relationships on Tuesday Feb 17th at 4-5pm  and on Friday Feb 20th at Noon to 1pm.   

    Forgivingly Yours, Amy 



    Tuesday, February 10, 2015

    Happy Tuesday!!!

    Music 4 Life® New Beginning Dare to BE Happy Challenge and our focus for February will be on relationships.

    Last week we talked about Handling Difficult People.  My AHA was: Before I get upset with "that" difficult person or situation in front of me, STOP and look inside to see what is going on with me!  

    This week we will support you on Creating and Nurturing Relationships.   

    Elements that Support Healthy Relationships

    *   Connection
    *   Sharing Expectations – Lack of shared expectations leads to BETRAYAL!!!
    *   Communicate – Communicate - Communicate
    *   Being Assertive
    *   Trust
    *   Compelling Reason
    *   Emotional Intelligence and Understanding Learning Styles
    *   Being Hopeful
    *   Listening Skills
    *   Dealing with Conflict
    *   Valuing and Appreciating
    *   Practice, Practice, Practice
    *   Giving and Receiving Effective Feedback
    *   Continual Focus and ACTION 

    We will explore tools to help you with your relationships!!!

    Download your handout this week. Sign-up for weekly updates.

    Music 4 Life® Dare To BE Happy Challenge 2015 New Beginnings
    Jan 13 through Mar 31, 2015
    Amy Frost and Judith Pinkerton

    Process for Dare To BE Happy Challenge:
    This Day/Week’s topic in Music 4 Life® Circles we will be Creating and Nurturing Relationships on Tuesday Feb 10th at 4-5pm  and on Friday Feb 13th at Noon to 1pm.   

    Relationshiply Yours, Amy 



    Thursday, February 5, 2015

    Linda Simon's photo.

    I am BEing with the information below.  Looking at synchronicities as not just cool things but signals that I am in grace which is the same as flow to me.  My guideposts.  BEing with knowing as I stay in the voice of spirit…my higher self…I am living grace.  I am not making the ego bad in myself or in others, NOT attempting to fix it for that is a choice and not staying in relationships and places where that is the set point.  Xo aimlessly focused ;-)

    Near Death Experiences – Brain Shift:  Sensitivity and Synchronicity by P.M.H. Atwater (pps 154 and 155)

    We know a lot about flow states.  Unlike concentration, which increases brain action, flow states decrease it.  Distortions disappear and we just flow.  Nothing happens, yet everything happens.   You emerge from such a flow state refreshed, inspired, and invigorated.   

    I compared mental (internal) flow states in my book, Future Memory, with that external sense of flow that can happen when synchronicity becomes almost routine. 

    Aspects of Flow

    Internal to Self                               External to Self

    Subjective to environment                         Objective environment
    Without a focus                                          More in Focus
    Release of thoughts                                   Release of goals or vested interests
    Stimuli fade away                                       Stimuli increase in clarity
    Blank out to nothing                                   Perk up to new possibility
    Consciousness expands                           Experience expands
    The mind flows                                          The life flows
    You know more                                          You do more
    Connection with a source of                      Connection with source of guidance
    wisdom                                                       beyond self
    Gain information                                        Gain harmony and an orderly rhythm to life    experiences
    Unify in consciousness                              Unify with the world at large
    A state of mind                                          A state of being

    Based on thousands of cases I have studied, synchronicitiy’s only purpose is to
    catch our attention.  It signals that an external flow has been activated, for
    however long.  Get that?  Synchronicity is a signal of movement “switching
    gears.”

    Near Death Experiences – Brain Shift:  Temporal Lobes by P.M.H. Atwater (pps 177 and 178)

    The Voice of the Ego                   The Voice of the Higher Self

    Flatters                                                          Informs
    Commands                                                   Suggests
    Demands                                                      Guides
    Tests                                                            Nudges
    Chooses for you                                          Leaves choice up to you
    Imprisons                                                     Empowers
    Promotes dependency                                Promotes independence
    Intrudes                                                        Respects
    Pushes                                                         Supports
    Excludes                                                       Includes
    Status oriented                                            Free and open
    Insists on obedience                                   Encourages a growth and development
    Often claims ultimate authority                  recognizes a great power/God
    Offers shortcuts                                          Offers integration

    Seeks personal gratification                      Affirms Divine Order, along with the good of all concerned